A large banner on Rose Hill Methodist Church announces that the ‘Community Drop-In’ is on, that it is free, has a variety of activities and that everyone is welcome. As you walk in you are greeted by two friendly people offering tea and biscuits. There are tables set up in the church hall, with a variety of games, activities, and some with colouring pads and pens.
Today a volunteer is running a quiz, which is very popular, with most people choosing to join in with their chairs in a circle, with lots of chat and laughter.
Two women are quietly playing Scrabble at a separate table. They met and became friends at the drop-in, and now attend every week together. They shared telephone numbers and now also do other things together during the week outside of this group.
A mother and her 30 year old son attend most weeks. The spend all their time at the colouring table, as that is one of the things the son likes to do best. He is wary of being around others, but is comfortable here as he is used to it and knows the organisers. The mother says that she would like to see more groups especially for people with schizophrenia.
One man comes in every week for a coffee and to read the newspaper. The organisers tell me he prefers to have a brief chat with them and then spend time quietly himself.
A group of men are chatting together. They meet here weekly and enjoy the space. One man tells me that he was sectioned in the last few years. He now lives in sheltered accommodation, and says that coming here is what he looks forward to most in his week. Some of the men have joined a male choir that is run by one of the men, and say that they enjoy coming to the group and seeing the others.
Age UK visit monthly with info and advice, and as the group is familiar with them, they have a friendly relationship which is conducive to individuals having their needs met with personalised help and support.
The group works with Abingdon & Witney College to organise monthly activities, including printing, crochet and other craft activities. All activities are optional, and are enjoyed by those who choose to try them. “I haven’t crocheted since my grandma taught me, it’s lovely to try it again,” said one woman.
There is an easy, low-key atmosphere that is clearly appealing to those who attend. There are organised activities if you want, and plenty else to choose from if you don’t. Abingdon & Witney College bring monthly variety, and Age UK provide lots of customised help for those who need it – a great collaboration between a national organisation and a local group who have a deep reach into the local community and its residents. These types of groups are needed in every community.